Apr. 23, 14

1986


"

One of the most dangerous things about forgiveness is that it undercuts your ability to let go of your pent-up emotions. How can you acknowledge your anger against a parent whom you’ve already forgiven? Responsibility can go only one of two places: outward, onto the people who have hurt you, or inward, into yourself. Someone’s got to be responsible. So you may forgive your parents but end up hating yourself all the more in the exchange.

I also noticed that many clients rushed to forgiveness to avoid much of the painful work of therapy. They believed that by forgiving they could find a shortcut to feeling better. A handful of them “forgave,” left therapy, and wound up sinking even deeper into depression or anxiety.

Several of these clients clung to their fantasies: “All I have to do is forgive and I will be healed. I will have wonderful mental health, everybody is going to love everybody, we’ll hug a lot, and we’ll finally be happy.” Clients all too often discovered that the empty promise of forgiveness had merely set them up for bitter disappointment. Some of them experienced a rush of well-being, but it didn’t last because nothing had really changed in the way they felt or in their family interactions.

"  - Susan Forward, Toxic Parents, ch 9 (via antineutral)




Apr. 23, 14

191909


collegecutiepie:

sideshowknob:

SO dublin minors won the all ireland football this week (don’t worry if u don’t understand its just a sideline)

and they were all out celebrating

and they found daniel radcliffe in dublin at 4am and invited him to a house party with them

and he…went with them

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How to celebrity; A book by Daniel Radcliffe

he’s so tiny omg




Apr. 23, 14

536358


deanandsamarebrothers:

squidsqueen:

dw:

when did we replace the word “said” with “was like”

When it occured to us that “said” implies a direct quote, while “was like” clarifies that you mean to communicate the person’s tone and general point without quoting them word for word.

thank you. thank you so much. so very very much. thank you.




Apr. 23, 14

22290


purpbanga:

tastefullyoffensive:

Mmmmnope. [pbs]

Lol me with the little kids at my job.




Apr. 23, 14

7239


socialnetworkhell:

psalmus:

avrilgif:

Avril Lavigne - Hello Kitty (OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO)

it’s like she just wants her career to end by making all the wrong decisions

This is so much worse than I ever could have imagined

Talk about using WOC as accessories. Jesus Christ.




Apr. 23, 14

65823


persephoneholly:

my-unashamedly-antiabortion-blog:

I am a Survivors of the Abortion Holocaust. 1/3 of my generation is gone and I will not turn my back on this tragedy. I have taken up my cross and joined the front lines of the Abortion Wars.

I will mourn the lost of 56+ million babies, I will grieve over the death of baby Isaiah, I will fight for the inherent right to life, for women to stop being treated as sex objects and for the post-abortive mothers and fathers who suffer in silence, and lastly pray for the end of abortion.

"I am a Survivors of the Abortion Holocaust.”
Are you a Jew, homosexual, disabled person, Roma, Jehovah’s Witness, born into 1940 Germany? No? Then you are not a survivor of the Holocaust.  

"1/3 of my generation is gone and I will not turn my back on this tragedy."
Yeah, and one third of ‘your generation’ lives in poverty, is hungry, needs medical care, is being abused, and needs support yet you weep over the ‘injustice’ of abortion.

"I have taken up my cross and joined the front lines of the Abortion Wars."
You are not Jesus. You are not a hero. You are a person sitting behind a little screen crying over some fertilized eggs.

"I will mourn the lost of 56+ million babies,"
Mourn the loss of the BILLIONS of babies who will die from hunger. Or who will die TONIGHT because of lack of health services. Mourn the loss of the MILLIONS of little girls who will die by suicide, in childbirth, or by the hands of their husbands because they are child-brides. Fetuses do not need you, real, living little kids need you.

"I will grieve over the death of baby Isaiah, I will fight for the inherent right to life,"
Sorry to break it to ya, but there isn’t an ‘inherent right to life.’ If there was, war, poverty, lack of healthcare, and the death penalty wouldn’t be around.

"for women to stop being treated as sex objects"
The first step of this is to stop seeing us as objects to carry a pregnancy. If we don’t want to be pregnant, we don’t want to be fucking pregnant and there is NOTHING you can say that will stop that.

"and for the post-abortive mothers and fathers who suffer in silence,"
Or you can just support them, no need to ‘fight’ anyone. People who regret their abortion need, first and foremost, people like you to shut the fuck up about ‘abortion is evil!’ ‘abortion kills a baby!’ because THAT is what causes the stigma. THAT makes people suffer. Second, they need people who will LISTEN without judgement. They need people who will SUPPORT how they feel, even if they are HAPPY about their abortion.

"and lastly pray for the end of abortion."

Good. Keep praying. Because everyone knows praying gets shit done.

holy shit people will do literally anything to victimise and glorify themselves at the same time 

what the fuck is this “survivor of the abortion holocaust” bullshit

how can you be so absolutely SELFISH AND SELF-ABSORBED

honestly if I found out my mom had been forced to carry on with the pregnancy of me, I would wish she’d aborted me instead

because NOTHING IN THE FUCKING UNIVERSE CAN GET BETWEEN A PREGNANT PERSON’S BODY AND THEIR DECISION TO NOT CARRY ON WITH THE PREGNANCY

not even disgusting self-interest and calling yourself a survivor just because your parent happened to want you, or even worse, BE FORCED TO HAVE YOU AGAINST THEIR WILL

JESUS FUCKING CHRIST PEOPLE ARE SO INCREDIBLY GROSS




Apr. 23, 14

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hartochan:




Apr. 22, 14

10189


bigeeklyanxiety:

highgayden:

"no homo" the teenage boy whispers as he pulls away from kissing his friend. he gently strokes the other males face "full bi" he adds in a sensuous tone.

hell yes




Apr. 22, 14

71689





Apr. 22, 14

12988


babycakesbriauna:

sale-aholic:

jellyroll22:

blipsterinsverige:

Praise

WELP

yep

Here for this

babycakesbriauna:

sale-aholic:

jellyroll22:

blipsterinsverige:

Praise

WELP

yep

Here for this




Apr. 22, 14

177272


officialannakendrick:

doctorbuggs:

insectious:

insectious:

Remember my pet caterpillar Shane? Found him at church during a sermon about Satan XD. He was such a fun pet in his larval stage. He used to love to swing from my hair.

Then everything changed when he pupated. He never touched me. He just spent several months looking and acting like a turd


But it was worth it! Look at him now! He’s so fluffy I’m gonna die!! And the friendly disposition has returned! He sits on my shoulder watching The Sing Off with me. Also, he’s a she! and she just laid eggs! I can’t wait for the 2nd generation!



this dude got his own pokemon

officialannakendrick:

doctorbuggs:

insectious:

insectious:

Remember my pet caterpillar Shane? Found him at church during a sermon about Satan XD. He was such a fun pet in his larval stage. He used to love to swing from my hair.

Then everything changed when he pupated. He never touched me. He just spent several months looking and acting like a turd

But it was worth it! Look at him now! He’s so fluffy I’m gonna die!! And the friendly disposition has returned! He sits on my shoulder watching The Sing Off with me. Also, he’s a she! and she just laid eggs! I can’t wait for the 2nd generation!

this dude got his own pokemon




Apr. 22, 14

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Apr. 22, 14

19643


buttart:

f-ili:

Puppy versus Dandelion

HE’S SO UPSET


via dynastylnoire // f-ili
tags: #dog #puppy


Apr. 22, 14

133300


jonnovstheinternet:

So I heard it’s Earth Day

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Apr. 22, 14

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